When you show a private part of your body to someone outside of your marriage even "only over the internet", that is still a physical affair.
So, whenever you watch porn, that's having a PA with all those women?
Stop playing on words, blue. You know what she's trying to say when she said it was "emotional". Don't you think you've thrown enough emotional stones at her? I think she feels bad enough, now, so some help in how to move forward might be in order.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
