Where were you two years ago! I'd be in a much better place right now if I'd known some of these things.
i was still somewhat happily married.
i'm ready to face my worst case scenario that the marriage is over.
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The ironic thing is that now that we are separated we're both doing a lot more of what the other needed. For ourselves.
are you both happier doing a lot more of what the other needed for yourselves?
i can relate to that but for me, no .. i'm not happier. why? carrie underwood once said it best .. "it'd be nice to be able to call someone else other than my mom when i win an award". and that's exactly how it feels. who do i share my life's successes and accomplishments with? life turned itself around but who's there to share it with?
i've been looking for a vacation. well, to travel solo will cost me the same amount of $$ as if i was travelling with someone. why?
yes, i can afford to pay double the price .. but it's the principle. why should i? i'm not using twice amount of water or soap when i shower. i'm not making twice the amount of a mess for the maid to clean. i'm not eating twice the amount of food.
so what do i do? not travel? should i be letting this solo act stop me from doing the things i love to do?
so now i work longer to get paid more so i can afford a vacation.
oh yeah, i can't even join those contiki tours in europe because it's for 18-35 yr olds. i'm in my late 30s.
that's my latest beef. the perks of being a twosome.
btw, i hate not being able to edit. moderators, is this a communist community?
