Weekends are a little slow around here. You also wrote a book and it can be intimaditing to read all of that. Remember that everyone here are not professionals we are just giving out free advice. So take it FWIW.
First piece of advice is try to stick with one thread. Where you post will also determine what kind of advice that you get.
Your husband is in crisis, sounds like you are in crisis too.
So the first thing that you have to do is to forget about him.
You have to first save yourself. Because if you are in crisis you will not be in too good of shape to do anything about "S".
Originally Posted By: cat4554
I bought many books about midlife crisis and eventually I bought your book.
Have you determined that it was not a MLC? To be honest I normally post on the MLC board and it sure does sound like one to me.
Originally Posted By: cat4554
Should I just go with the divorce?
Is that what you want? I mean you always have that option. I would assume that you wouldn't be posting on a divorce busting site if that is what you wanted. I can guarantee that if you push for a divorce, you will get one. So be sure what it is you are asking for.
I am confused by what you wrote is he still with the OW or did he break it off?
