D4MIL,


I'll keep up with you.

Where were you two years ago! I'd be in a much better place right now if I'd known some of these things. I don't "blame society". I know the way I loved my W wasn't what she needed. Unfortunately I learned too late. I step up and admit my failures. Guilty as charged. I'm not the only one, W hasn't quite seen her failures yet. The ironic thing is that now that we are separated we're both doing a lot more of what the other needed. For ourselves.

I’m not trying to tell you what you should want, or what your needs should be. But if you do not communicate them, don’t be surprised when men don’t know what they are and we fall back on what society tells us. Women do this too, just in different ways.


M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011