MLC WIFE THREATENS LEGAL ACTION

[Albuquerque]

Bobby,

You are a physician. I am a veterinarian. We are used to being called "not real doctors". Us vets joke that physicians went to the "easy" med school where they only had to learn about one species. Either way, we share similar personalities.

We had to work hard, focus, concentrate, give it our all. We sacrificed in order to make it. As a result, we often define ourselves by our actions and our roles. Physician, husband, father. We are also trained to look at problems with a certain mentality. Assess the problem. Look for clues. Perform diagnostics. Attain a diagnosis. And most importantly, TREAT the disease. This is what we do. This is our lives. Bobby.

FORGET EVERYTHING YOU KNOW AND STFU AND LISTEN TO THIS FORUM!!!!

Over and over people have asked you direct questions. Questions about YOU. We don't honestly give a flying crap about your W right now. We know you do. We all care about our S. But this is NOT about your W. This is about YOU. In ALL your posts not once have I gotten a true sense of who you really are. I can only assume it is because you do not know. You are not used to being asked the questions. You are used to having the answers. This defines you. I understand that. Well sorry Bobby, but you won't FIND the answers anywhere. Not in a book, not in other people. You can't TREAT this disease. YOU have to find YOU. Sure, you can use others to help GUIDE you along this process. But if you are not willing to take a look inward, you are doomed.

Once again in case you missed it. FORGET EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU KNOW AND START LEARNING!! Stop being a doctor. Stop assessing EVERYTHING. Nothing makes sense right now and it won't. You can't understand madness. Don't try.

Until you are prepared to answer honest questions about YOURSELF, you will not grow.