Hey Sunny

The decision to trust again is a tough one.

I have not come to that part yet.

I ask myself what does it look like when I would consider letting my W back in my life.

What is healthy for us. More importantly

When is it healthy for us.

I know that I wanted my W to want to reconcile when I started this.

Looking back I am glad for the time that has passed and am actually grateful for the time I still have...

Two people here right?

Are YOU ready? Have you done your work? Are you happy with YOU?

Then

How has H changed?

This isn't an all or nothing deal. I think you walk slowly and watch

The same things we say about the LBS is also true for the WAS

He can't talk himself out of something he acted his way into.

What do you need to see? What actions from H.

Your old marriage is over and dead.

This is all up to you what you want to create from the ashes.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am