"OK, that is your choice but I do know what I want. I know my decison now. I'll have my L start the process."
You lead. No anger or tears. She can't commit and that's her choice.
This is what i keep going back to pookie. Is this what i need to do right now, or should i continue on making me a better me for me and not do this. Or is me bringing this to a head to show her that i will walk and unless she says anything but ok ill commit to try, the right thing to do?
Coach told you how you should hold your ground when talking to her about OM.
You want to make certain that she is done with him and that you can trust her when she says that.
Maybe she has done that already, maybe not. If you think you can believe her now then don't bring it up. However it is still paramount that the A is over before M healing can start.
Working on yourself is a parallel task. You are doing it for yourself.
