You've changed? There is something harder to learn that you are resisting understanding or more attatchment, so more emotional pain?
That's my guess. When I cared the least, was the "bad boy", and so on, grieving relationships was days to a week tops, and then I was moving on to the next one or chasing 3-4 other women.
When I began to change (and it didn't start until after I took a job that required travel for many years, spent some time alone, reflected on the importance of "family", and so on) I was amazed that the first semi-serious relationship I had was followed by months of detachment issues. For the first time, I suppose I began to think about the importance of establishing a working, long-term relationship.
I'm still learning.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
