I'm trying to think of ways to get her to go to a different one, but she is not in a place to take recomendations from me.
Unless she comes to you wanting to reconcile, I don't see where her choice in couselor is relevant. If she wants a divorce, then you should proceed as if that is what is going to happen.
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