She didn't. But I told my W if ever try MC again (unlikelky) I won't go to her.
Smart move.
I'm going to provide a little background of an earlier incarnation of TimeHeals where... time didn't heal.
Up until about age 32, I can honestly say that I had very poor personal boundaries. In those first 32 years, I had exactly one girlfriend that I didn't stay in pretty much continious contact with. In short, I built up a large entourage of former love interests, and if you like a life of drama and unstable relationships, you would probably say I was doing well. I didn't spend much time single (I think the longest period was 4 months), and I had one girlfriend that I was friends with for over 10 years (it only ended after she married AND after she had twins--and she had the sense to say... "hey, my family and marriage is more important than us being buddies").
All staying buddies will do--should you not reconcile--is keep you from moving on. Doesn't mean you have to be nasty, but it does mean you need to establish healthy boundaries.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
