If I can afford a lawyer in the most expensive city in the country on my salary, you and your H can afford a lawyer. Actually, you may qualify for Legal Assistance. Look for a service like that in your state. Most of the time they are set up to help women just like you. They will be able to explain your rights.
Protect yourself! Be strong!
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