Just a quick pop in to keep my thread alive. Nothing as changed and doubt it ever will, still no contact to son from the ex, still no contact from the ex to his old aunt, the old home sold and new people have moved in and are ripping it from together, good luck to them and hope they make it as good as it could be and enjoy their time there. son does say that one day when he has some money he intends to buy back our old home, I think being thrown out of there and having it taken away from him cut son up more than I realised. so ex has no property, no car, no money and no family, all he as is the woman he took off for, ah well life goes on at least myself and son are happy and can hold our heads up in public xxxx