I know my W has a similar view of things. Somtimes I want to show my W this site to show her just how predictable she is.
Her IC told her "research shows that married couple do better emotionally in their D when they stay close friends". So I'm supposed to agree, cause research has shown it will be better for me. "people in your situation often seek separation" rather than a D. The IC is an enabler.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011