Geez, 40...you have one of the more extreme cases here. Maybe you can get a court-ordered psychological evaluation. How can you let someone you barely know even near your children??!!
Already tried that the judge would not sign it
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct