1) Listen to your lawyer. 2) Listen to your heart. 3) If necessary, replace lawyer, go to 1)
Dude, after your "convo" with wife, this is a fight you MUST fight. Even if you lose, if you go down swinging, your children will remember that somebody stood up for them. Somebody thought that they were important. You take care of you and gird your loins for battle. If you fight for your children and they know that all you wanted was a healthy life for them, you CAN'T lose.
I wish somebody had felt that way during my parents' divorce 30 years ago.
You have no way of controlling what the judge does. You control *you*. Your children will never forget that you fought for them.
The armor is on. The destrier is saddled. Lower your lance, 40. The thunder of your charge will echo throughout their life.
SpinFree, who simultaneously wishes every battle in life was this clear-cut and is glad that they aren't because those that are suck
