Originally Posted By: Coach
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However women need to do much more to fix themselves as a man can get way over stressed when too much BS is thrown at him.



That's the point, she throws BS (testing) to see if you can handle it. When you can't handle it she loses attraction. She wants to be called out on the CB, this in turn lessens your stress. A woman isn't attracted to a man who let's his womans emotions run over him and stress him out.

Ever wonder why women are attracted to "bad boys" ?

I acknowledge that these are insightful observations and that's that way things seem to be with a lot of women.

I'm not sure what CB is. But assuming its the same as BS ... let me say there are many women so full of BS and when they're "called out" on it they spew forth more BS causing more stress. The run away emotions cause a lot of mental instability (sometimes bordering on illness) unfortunately. You cannot keep habitually testing a man like this and not cause him to break. Then again your mileage may vary. I'm around some women who are mathematicians and scientists. And tho' they have feelings (like most men also do by the way) these women do not lead with their arbitrary feelings like my dog does with his nose on a walk - they are highly responsible and accountable and logical individuals.

I'd risk going further and say that the women and feminists who fight loudly for "equality" would do well if they also accepted full responsibility and accountability for their actions and behavior and limitations. The world has gotten much more complicated as a result of blurring business and family roles. So if girls are raised believing its OK to go rampant with their feelings then we will continue to have more strife. I believe a wife is not not meant to be a partner but a helper, a team player and a lover. The idea of partner stirs up competition and conflict. I will try to raise my own daughter to learn to balance feeling and logic and to always respect others esp. her husband if she marries.