Love the mediation process. I was able to say everything I needed to address my concerns in our D, and what I want to accomplish through this whole process. Mediator was in tune with what I was saying and could see clearly I was the better communicator. All in all I think my W struggled a little with the info, but I don't know for sure.
W was in complete agreement during our meeting and was very pleasant when asked if she understood. It's now up to her to decide if she wants to proceed. I told her if she wants to go though with this then let me know when she pays her half and I will copperate and pay my part.
W called me about an hour after we left Mediator, she proceeded to go off about everything. I fell for some of the same old behavior and engaged in a pointless argument. Another lesson learned though. A couple of 2x4's thrown at me later made me change my attitude. (Yes I was Angry) I'm just amazed at how someone who is 43yrs old can throw a tempertantrum that rivals a 5 year old.
I will say the Mediation process is what will make me very comfortable with this very uncomfortable situation.
