I trusted her because that is my nature. I wanted to believe her she told me that the money was going to pay back debts but now I am not so sure.
She is actually diagnosed as schizo affective so she has both of them (schizoprenia and bipolar) but btu they are udner control with her medication which she is trying to get off under the supervision of her doctor.
Any move to bring in a third aprty in regards to money is the death knell of the marriage and while the points that you have made are all excellent it would end everything..
I dont want to argye with her. I honestly dont know if this is a result of her illness coupled with stress. I know that I have no hope of getting her to see an alternative point of view.
Its hard to get her family involved. Her relationship with her mother and step father has completely broken down due to their 'support' of me through the seperation. Her father knows that if he gets involved then she will 'block' him out as well. She has no real relationship with her step mother.
I really dont know if this is a result of her medication but it would explain a bit. But I am not going to jump to this conclusion. Maybe it is just a result of stress, maybe this is who she really is. I just dont know.
Thanks for the thoughts
Andrew
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