I dont know what it is with her spending, she is bipolar - whioch was one of the things that caused problems through our seperation. If she is messing around with her medication then this coulod explain her irrational behaviour over the last week.
But saying that we are the broubd owners of over 1000 dollars worth of plants, more then thatv in 'crystals' and she has a few new outfits.
Her family is very much aware of her abiility to budget to the extent that her mother and step father dont have much to do with her anymore although I tried to broker a peace here. I dont think gambling in in the picture - she has never displayed any signs of this before.
She has a docdtore that she sees in regards to her medical problem, but she is very defeinsice about me bringing up her medical condition. We need counselling, I can see that, but it is hard when we are this far apart, although we were going to see someone when I got back to Australia.
Mate Finacial wealth comes and goes - I have learnt that more then anything over the last 18 months. Honestly the day we sign the 'sale' document over here I become a multi millionaire and if it works in line with the pessimistic proojections we have done then i will have more money the I could hope to spend in a life time. My driver here has never been money, it never has. I have a chance to build something that brings together all of my experiances over the last 20 years and this has always been a bigger challenge then money. I am a pretty simple guy - I just want to be able to relax in a beach at the end of this and not have to worry about things and be able to do things like go back to uni, teach, etc.
I ahvent thrown in the towel but there is only so much that I can do. I love her and want to give her whatever I can. I csan teve see the lavish lifestyle - I dont know what she does with it.
Anyway mate many thanks for your thoughts I really appreciate them.
Andrew
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