MLW,

Like Punkin said, breathe...

Most of us, think that an affair is a deal breaker. Then we find out otherwise.

You need to decide that first. Can you make an attempt to forgive him to the point that you could reconcile your M if he wanted to do that?

Or is it something that will always and forever be a bee in your bonnett, just waiting to be let out?

Yes lying, lying, and more lying, is a major part of MLC. So is hiding, sneaking, and odd behavior in general.

Read the resources and dig into the MLC archives. Get to know what you are dealing with if you are going to try to outlast this MLC.

There is no quick fix to any of this, and it won't be over tomorrow if it is MLC.

Keep posting, reading, and asking questions...

There are some really good people here...


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox