Farfromhome - Haven't posted to you in a while but OH MY GOSH . . . you need to stop this rollercoaster! Why do you keep giving in to her financially? To me that is ludicrous! She has you right where she wants you in my opinion. I don't mean to be harsh here but it appears she doesn't want the marriage - she wants you to pay and pay dearly. She is right in that you can't keep borrowing from every Tom, Dick and Harry - she is going through that money like water! Personally, I think she needs a hard dose of reality!
I hope I didn't hurt your feelings - I know how tough it has to be to try and make it work but I think you have done more than your share!
