He filed 2 months ago--Aug 9. I thought you had read that ages ago...
Anyway, he made threats a week ago, and now is "instrospective" which makes me nuts--NOW you want to work on you?? Well, I have moved on..mostly..but the old me loves the DB process and totally believes in it, and is struggling being sucked back in. I think "try this" "do that".lol.
I need to sit and do nothing--the opposite of you.lol. But that's what works sometimes. People who killed themselves trying to win back their H's need to RELAX and HAVE FUN!!lol!