robx I've looked at the divorce law here in Virginia and I am not joking when I say thats how it probably will be. Will I fight it? Of course I will but the reality is that most of the time in a situation like mine she gets what I said.
As far as filing charges against her, I have no qualms about doing it if its for a good reason but I don't think it will achieve anything. If my lawyer says I should I will otherwise I think its best to just focus on my defense. The reality of the matter from talking to two police officers is that the charges will be dismissed.
As far as standing up for myself etc. I am. I am taking the budget and turning her [censored] off. After i speak with a lawyer I will no better where I stand as far as what I am obligated to provide and not obligated.
Now do I secretly hope that she'll come around? Yes of course is that bad? I do want to work it out. I'm not going to jump on it if she says it, and I am not going to accept this bullshit from her anymore. She will never walk all over me again.
I am showing her the door. I told her last night more [censored] we're stopping ( ie private school cant afford it because of this).
I HEAR YOU ROBX!!!
After the incident it really all became clear. She doesn't respect me at all. I don't want her if its going to be a status quo. However I do love her ( i dont say that anymore to her though) and I do want to work it out if she's willing to work for change.
Also I am willing to work on her complaints to that I felt were legit.
Honestly I am having fun with my 180's and I'm going out tonight with friends. For the first time in 2 weeks [censored] seems pretty clear.
Respect me, dump you "not boyfriend", and work for change or GTFO because I am better than this.
