"You will be attractive if you don't pursue, push or nag. You will be attractive when you get her to respect you. You will get respect when you set your boundaries. She will see that you are fighting for her without you saying a word about it.

She will let you know when she is ready to talk about R."

Pookie you commented on the above.. so let me ask you, if a WAW starts talking R before you have a confirmation of the end of an EA does that mean you are asking her to respect a boundry that no longer needs to exist? Ie the EA could be over?

M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10