How about some goals for affair-proofing yourself for the future?

What are ways to:

1) Avoid being neglected/withdrawn from

2) Avoid FEELING neglected/withdrawn from/unloved

3) Healthily cope with/respond to feelings of being neglected or unloved (i.e., not seeking out or responding to outside suitors).

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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