Well, I asked my wife to stay at the house yesterday for her visit and I would make dinner and we could finish the Halloween decorating. She said yes. We had a very nice dinner as a family and her, my daughter and myself decorated the outside of the home. She stayed 2 hrs later then normal and we actually talked. Not about us, just about the family, what I was planning next on the home repairs etc. A couple of times I notice her saying we could do this or we could do that. Just noticed, didnt point it out though.
When she was getting ready to leave we were standing outside, I told her about my oldest and my quality time project. She was very interested in it. He picks a dessert out of numerous books I got him, he has to write out the complete ingrediant list and we go shopping and make the dessert. I told her we would like her to stay for dinner when she picks up the kids for her weekend so she can try out our prject. She said yes without skipping a beat.
I went to deliver the card this morning and I pushed it, in the card I offered her to spend the weekend at the home with the kids, (I really dont want my kids at her and OM house). Well she must have watched me put the card in her car, cause i wasnt 5 mins down the road before she sent me a text saying she enjoyed last night, couldnt wait to try our dessert tonight, and she would see how it went tonight about her staying at the house. She then asked me if that was fair.
I told her very fair, and that I would stay at my parents etc. if it would make her feel more comfortable. my plan here is to get her missing the home and our family. So i dont care if I have to sleep at my moms for 2 nights.
So I guess, tonight could turn out to be interesting. Wish me luck!
