yea I understand how it sounds that way. I am not trying to be passive aggresive. I want to go boating with my son and since she wants to have a conversation tommorrow evening, I dont want to pretend we are all a lovly family at the boating beach and then come home and try to dicuss what she wants to talk about (R talk maybe). I am keeping my self respect and will discuss it what ever she wants as long as she understands my boundry about OM. she has the time to choose.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10