Geez, 40...you have one of the more extreme cases here. Maybe you can get a court-ordered psychological evaluation. How can you let someone you barely know even near your children??!!
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08