Yea, I have reservations if I can trust her word. Which is why she would have to be willing to give more. Part of me feels that I should wait and baby step this but a big part of me feels like say what we already talked about. The other night when I told her me or him she said me. It was that feeling of loss in my opinion that made her say that. The same feeling that kept her up the night before when out of the blue I said don't contact me anymore. She could have easily said finally I can do x without him bothering me etc. But she didn't. She called twice, texted me, and jumped at the first chance to talk to me when I finally texted her back the next day. When she came over it was the first time she's been there since she go the last of her stuff a month ago. When I told her to come there she was hesitant until I told her that I had stuff to do that I would be there and didn't have time to meet her somewhere else. Since I've implemented the lrt&GAL her tune wasn't quite the same the other night as it had been.