That if she had to pretend to be a happy wife to make me happy, she would, including sex. I told her that I misunderstood what she said and her intentions, and that have a fake marriage for the kids was a horrible idea; that if she was willing to go to Retro with an open mind and an open heart towards reconciliation, I think it might be valuable to us. She didn't want to work on "us." That sounds harsh, but it wasn't a harsh conversation, just both of us trying to clear the air.
She said that I was confused because I didn't understand that men and woman can be close, emotionally intimate friends without any romance.
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Pinhead. You should really read my situation. Beginning to end.
PH, Your wife is getting her needs met somewhere else.
Well, her exact words were "Men and women can be close friends." This is a debate we've had forever, especially if we see a commercial for When Harry Met Sally. I mixed my reply/validation with what she said in my original post.
