"OK, that is your choice but I do know what I want. I know my decison now. I'll have my L start the process."
You lead. No anger or tears. She can't commit and that's her choice.
Alright coach, but there isn't anything for a lawyer to do. She knows I've already got one but were waiting on the six month mark and there isn't anything to do before then. So should I say I know what I want, but if you can't decide then there is no reason for us to go on with this process of talking nor should we have communication after this?
Coach is telling you that there is no option for non compliance about OM. Whatever it takes for you to make that clear.
Alse what does it take for you to believe her? Where does your trust sit with her right now?
How do you follow up if she claims that all contact is over?
