So my W has moved into a rental house and i am staying in the marital home. Things have been very tense over the last couple of weeks before the move as i felt she was taking more than she should and she was getting upset that I was "NOT Allowing" her to take certain stuff. Even her friends who have stayed in contact with me told her she was being unreasonable but that did not stop the anger.
The big news though is that one of her closest friends who was in fact the one that told me W was having an A just yesterday told me she was wrong. She said there is no one else involved and never was not from the physical side anyway. I believe this girl as she has known me as long as my W and has always been supportive. She is a very straight up person.
That having been said I still truly believe the M is over and over the last few months even when under the same roof we led different lives with little or no communication. i was always polite but she did not reciprocate.
My dilemma is now that in my heart i would love my M to survive but chances are really low. I don't doubt she will hook up with someone over the next while. i have just met someone i would like to ask out on a date but feel that this is putting the last nail in the marital coffin. But if i don't then I feel that i am just waiting on her to make the move and letting her call all the shots. That to me looks pathetic. i just want to get on with life and let her get on with hers.
Everyone always says GAL. Well i have a great life in all aspects except this and never stopped enjoying life over this period. It pi$$ed her off but had no impact on her actions.
i really miss all the aspects of female companionship ( Not just sex )and am fed up wondering what the impact will be on her if i start dating. She called this so why should i feel guilty but i do.
