"OK, that is your choice but I do know what I want. I know my decison now. I'll have my L start the process."
You lead. No anger or tears. She can't commit and that's her choice.
Alright coach, but there isn't anything for a lawyer to do. She knows I've already got one but were waiting on the six month mark and there isn't anything to do before then. So should I say I know what I want, but if you can't decide then there is no reason for us to go on with this process of talking nor should we have communication after this?