WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

Time,

that is what meant by not allowing it. I didnt mean to say I was not going to allow her to keep doing what she wants, I cant control that. I am saying I am not going to allow it to change my boundry or my feelings of self respect. I am learning a lot about myself. I am seeing that life will go on no matter what.

I have stated I have set the boundry. I am allowing her some time to process it. The bend not the break. I have learned I am very intense and want the result today, now, this minute. That is controlling behavior.. it is insane behavior.. I cant control anything except myself. truth be told, I dont want to. If the end of the day she stays with him, that is her choice. I will know if she respects my boundry soon enough.