There can always be hope. Divorce doesn't even mean that it's all over. Just think of everything from here on out as new. BUT! She needs to cut this OM out completely, and be 100% transparent in all she does for you before there can be any chance. In the meantime, when she brings up things like homesxhooling, had it been me, I would have asked her how she's going to do that when I have full custody? Is your state no-fault? Shock
