Sorry for sporadic posts... I was having "Cookie" issues...
Big quesion is how to handle the right balance between giving my W the idea that I am pleasant and someone she wants to be around and maintaining some level of detachement so that I am ok and so she doesn't get too much availability from me (hopeful it helps her "miss" me.. think about what I'm doing... etc...) I want her to realize I can do fine without her, but I don't want to be cold and stand offish. We live together so it is hard to limit contact...
M 06/08 D10, D8 1st S 05/10 I move out Move back 07/10 same bed then me in guest room 2nd S 09/10 W out one week W back 09/10 W in guest room D-bomb 10/10 S - living together No D yet filed