I encourage you to read the resources that Cadet gave you. I also encourage you to ask questions if you need clarification.
There are some very wise and wonderful people who really know their stuff when it comes to MLC that would be glad to answer your questions. IMO when you understand the basics of what you're dealing with it's much easier to focus on what's really important, YOU!
Like Antonia and Punkin have said, you'll find lots of support here from those that are walking the same path.
