She brought me up on domestic assault charges. All my cop friends think it'll be dismissed because the police didn't arrest anyone at the time and it was "mutual combat".
When I told her that she was [censored] herself because I might lose my job from this she was surprised and talked about trying to drop the charges. You can't drop them in my state though you have to go to court once they are pressed no matter what.
Last night I was telling her our son is going to have to leave private school because we can't afford it with this [censored] going on. She said that she would home school him before she'd send him to public. I was like wtf how are you going to do that you have to work and pay rent etc. She was like oh yeah.. uhmm..
Then she started saying that I was trying to intimidate her with the money and that we could go back to how we were doing things before with the finances in the meantime.
She keeps saying says she has "rights" when I say I am taking over the finances.
I dunno if there's any chance at saving this. I hope there is, I really do love her and she can be wonderful but so much would have to change now that I dunno. Plus of course she has to come to that idea on her own to.
I think her friend was trying to hint to me there might be some doubts on her side but I'm not sure. Also there was some minor snoopin gon my part nd she was texting her "not boyfriend" something about a broken heart. I know I know thats all mind readiing lol..
