I also haved viewed our relationship with rose colored glasses and now that I"m taking them off I can't believe how long I believed in something that wasn't there from H. He was always smarter, more business savvy, made much more money, had good reasons for everything, was good looking and in great health, was a good provider and I still struggle with feeling angry at him and believing he is wrong. I always take his word for things as something I have done wrong.
H4L,
Can you write more about this? I've been (rightfully) accused of this behavior. My W finds herself in in therepy and not wanting to put up w/ my CB on this type of thing. I'm a know it all, and she believed I could do no wrong until the bottom fell out. I don't want to be this way. What could your H do to fix this? What 180s would you have him do? How can he show you that he values your opion as much as you do/did his? I think this would be helpful to me.
Thanks.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
