men telling other men that women need to feel financially secure in a relationship - yet, it is the men who turn around and accuse the women of marrying them for their money?
I think it is a huge area of concern for men. They feel? vulnerable? in this area.
You and I are the LB. We brought our own assets into our marriages and yet STILL heard how we married just for money. Our H's PARENTS got involved and said the same thing.
It occurs all over these boards. Again, we are nothing special.
The only thing not all over the boards is your insight into you. Explore that more.
Hey--why are you sad about my sitch?? I am in a pretty good place right now! As I keep telling my depressed H, Hey, if you had made any efforts at all you would have peace right now--that's how it is that I'm happy--I did the work (yes, I did use that phrase!)
