Whew...just when I thought the wild ride was over.

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@BA>>>Your H and his L sound like a real fine piece of work. So did you come to a settlement and is it one you can live with or are things still up in the air.

I absolutely hate court proceedings!!! They just absolutely suck the life right out of you and so often lack common sense and reasoning all "in the name of justice."


I called H & said I wanted to settle our MSA immediately, I had some #'s for him. If he didn't agree, my original L would take over & we would head straight into attorney h@ll. Considering the last few months of only dealing with visitation, etc., were painfully expensive, and as you say BA, suck the life right out of you, I guessed he would jump on the chance.

@Kat-It didn't really matter how dirty his L was, the only ones who really made out were the L's.

So, I had everything laid out when he arrived for our meeting. What I would accept & what I wouldn't.

Bottom line, I'm ready to wrap this up, get the MSA signed off by L's & be done with it.

Well...guess who's not so done all of a sudden!

-Doesn't know "how we got here."
-Should have never left.
-Should have come right back.
-Loved being married to me.
-Let's go p/u S7 & get some lunch.

I might have fallen for that before (I did in the beginning), not a chance now.

I asked him to have the changes made & get the agreement back so we can hopefully wrap it up in the next couple of weeks.


S& is feeling a little weak, but made it to school for picture day. So sweet...wanted to wear the same thing as last year, "But I thought you said I looked nice in that shirt!"

Sunny


Date of separation 4/23/07

DB under Warm&Sunny 4/07

married 9 yrs

sons 6yr & 17yr