In the process

[newmama]

Hi Flowmom! My instincts tell me that City Guy is interested because he continues to email me.I think maybe he is taking his time because he might be looking for something meaningful--AWESOME! However, I do wonder if he is dating others.

So I am just going along and if I start interacting with someone else, fine for now! BUt I totally do want to see if we have chemistry in person. I do think I will give it only another week (or couple of emails because that could take a week) and then will ask him about meeting in person.

As for the little things--I guess we all have our values. I hear men on the forum complaining about gold diggers or they feel like they were used for a free meal or something. To me, honestly, if a guy were to accept my "dutch," I won't be too alarmed UNLESS there were other flags (like with Country Guy). I just personally am not a cheapskate/tightwad and do not ever want to be with someone who is. ExH was not a tightwad but was responsible with money at the same time. That is what I want in another fella!

Maybe that is what you meant--early stages can give us signS (plural) that we are wise to notice. Not one isolated thing!