Needless to say, I think we both have huge issues to deal with. Her self esteem is just horrible, her sense of identity is bound so tightly to just motherhood.
I've felt codependent from Bomb-day plus one, so it'll be great to see how I feel when I'm out of the house. I sure hope my codependency was due to the bomb, but I'm realistic enough to see that it's probably part of my identity and something I need to work on.