WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

Gucci,

I see your point.

help me out here. I have set the boundry: I will not live in an open marriage. I want her to leave and be free. IF she wants to remain she must NC the guy.

So how do I move this to the stage you are recommending?

I have already stated that to her. In those words.

Shall I state plainly what you have stated?

how do I do that with out it seeming like I am breaking instead of bending.

I am curious