The problem you're making is that you're trying to control her. If you want her back, you're going to have to start agreeing and validating her feelings. So far all you've done is go against what she believes is right.

"She doesn't realize how much I'm trying to protect her from the mistake she is making."

She's not 5 years old. She's a grown woman. It's not your job to "protect" her from any mistakes. She needs to grow and discover these things on her own. You can gently direct, but you can't ever change another person's mind.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER