For example, I know I could get her to go to Retro. That would be leading, and she'd go, just to live up to her promise to do anything. But we all know there's a world of difference from her being focused on starting a new relationship with me and her doing what she thinks will keep me around.
The old mind reading for the spouse trick, second time I fell for it this month.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.