One last thing, is any of this to much to soon? Should I just continue to Gal, and leave her alone, etc. Or has my situation come to the point already where I should be leading and telling her if this is what you want then come join me. Part of men wonders if it's to much to soon. I have no problem walking away if she is not willing to play her part or do the things I ask about the OM. I just want to make sure this is the path I should take and if it corresponds to what is the right next move.
Thanks everyone for taking an interest in my situation.