So coach, what your saying is I can't lead nor shouldn't. I should just leave her with the possibility of a positive outcome for this marriage if she is willing to do what is necessary to help get it to that point. Should I just tell her that or should I wait til she seeks me out to tell her that?
So coach, what your saying is I can't lead nor shouldn't. I should just leave her with the possibility of a positive outcome for this marriage if she is willing to do what is necessary to help get it to that point. Should I just tell her that or should I wait til she seeks me out to tell her that?
no that is leading. you are showing her the path and you are on it. you are giving her the opportunity to join you on the journey if she chooses.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
One last thing, is any of this to much to soon? Should I just continue to Gal, and leave her alone, etc. Or has my situation come to the point already where I should be leading and telling her if this is what you want then come join me. Part of men wonders if it's to much to soon. I have no problem walking away if she is not willing to play her part or do the things I ask about the OM. I just want to make sure this is the path I should take and if it corresponds to what is the right next move.
Thanks everyone for taking an interest in my situation.
Then take a breather and relax. Get your energy back, take care of yourself and get your thoughts together so you can say it in your voice.
Sounds like she calls or contacts you enough for a opportunity to present itself.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Then take a breather and relax. Get your energy back, take care of yourself and get your thoughts together so you can say it in your voice.
Sounds like she calls or contacts you enough for a opportunity to present itself.
She's called the past 2 Mondays but it always seems like for one reason or another a text is sent between us. I just didn't want to pass this opportunity up if everyone felt like I needed to make a move.
Thanks both of you guys, I typed it up before coach had said anything back. I really appreciate the time and thought both of you have put into my sitch.
I'm thinking next time we meet like last night I'm just going to leave the laptop open and have long pauses in-between mine and her conversations so I'll be sure to get it right.
