As for seeing any other women...you should indeed hold off if there is a chance that it could hurt your case.
One ugly thing to keep in mind is this unconstitutional law called VAWA (violence against women act) that "girly-man" Joe Biden was largely responsible for during the Clinton years. You may already be aware of it through fathers rights groups. It was meant to protect women from violent men, but some lawyers and women have abused it by falsely claiming they feel threatened and then they have a huge advantage in the legal system. Phyllis Schlafly has written some very good articles about why this is unconstitutional legislation that needs to be re-worked so as to not make men second class citizens in divorce.
D-10 text me tonight and told me the whole story. The stbex got a baby sitter for the kids so she could go on a date with om#7. Before she left she blocked the phone so the kids could not call me and I could not call them. She didn't want me to know what she was up to. Thank goodness I bought D-10 a phone she is bidding from her mom. I miss my kids so much 2 and a half weeks since I saw them this is the longest time I have ever been away from my kids.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
Thank goodness I bought D-10 a phone she is bidding from her mom.
smart move, I'm thinking about doing this for my kids.
Sorry to hear you haven't seen your kids for so long. 4 days is bad, I could image two and a half weeks.
Hang in there buddy.
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Talked to the lawyer this morning he told me that he would call the stbex lawyer he thought he could get this little problem fixed today.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
You gotta wonder what goes on when the divorce lawyers talk privately to each other sometime. The coorespondence I saw between the lawyers in my divorce was very professional. When we met at the courthouse, I enjoyed the short conversation with my lawyer and her laywer over coffee before she showed up with a big bitchy scowl on her face.
I got my fingers crossed for a happy outcome for you and your kids. Hopefully, both lawyers will put what is best for the kids in all decisions.
The Texas Texas A&M game comes to mind when I think of what they are talking about.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
The stbex got a baby sitter for the kids so she could go on a date with om#7.
Zomg! 7?!
Sad but true!
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
