Well, I don't know. Wanting to be with you and wanting to work on your relationship so that the relationship can be sustained are two different things.
A woman might not be "feeling it," but is willing to put the work in because she knows it's the right thing to do and that the relationship is worth saving. A woman may also change her mind about walking away (for the time being) but may not be willing to put the work in to rebuild the relationship. Sure, "wanting to be with you" is a good thing, but not the be all end all.
JMHO Of course, that's from a male perspective which may be of no value at all.
Bingo...
My daughters want to be with me all the time. They have no idea of how to build or maintain a relationship.
My wife wants me to be in the family, as a father, as a friend. If she's feeling it, it's awfully deep and repressed.
Careful in trying to mindread your spouse. When there's no doubt in their mind, it's a world of difference from a spouse tiptoeing around the pool. When they're all in it's like someone doing a naked cannonball.
